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[chaquir]

Just me.

Just you.

Perhaps we match.
Perhaps we don't.


you want to find out? Leave a comment and take the risk.


Just so you know.. i like interaction on lj. INTER-ACTION!! That's very important to me.
if i see you updating every day and you never ever leave a comment in my journal, you're out of my life as fast as you came in.
Consider yourself warned.

Comments

[elfinecstasy.livejournal.com]

Hi - I noticed your journal through a mention in ember_skye's - and was immediately drawn to it. Your wishes for your journal - the sharing, the updating, the bonding - are what I wish for in my own. I am in process of sorting out who really wants to be a part of my LJ and life - and to my friends I am devoted. They are one of my greatest blessings.
To know more about me, you can check out my website http.//www.esmereldalittleflame.com. You can also check out my novel, Temple of the Twelve, on amazon.com. My books are my soul, really...
I have friended you to my journal - hope you don't mind - feel free to look around it and add back if you wish :-) but no hard feelings if you do not, of course. I will give you plenty of time to decide, but I won't be discourteous and keep you friended forever and ever if you don't add back - I think that's really rude.
Blessings,
Gemma "ELF"

[chaquir.livejournal.com]

Hi Gemma,

Mostly i don't add people just like that. I rather learn to get to know them through a conversation we had or when i see comments from that person that trigger me.
I had a look at your journal and infopage and i'm wondering with 158 friends, how on earth you keep up with all of them.
To me Lj is about interaction. I read ALL the entries made by my friends and comment on mostly every entry. With 158 friends, that's an impossible task. So there must be lots of friends you neglect.
I'm expecting from my friends pretty much the same, that they read me and that they comment.
I'm willing to add you, but if i find out we don't match in our Lj-habbit, i'm afraid i will delete you again.
I'm sorry.. it's who i am and the way i handle LJ.
Let me know what you think of it.

[elfinecstasy.livejournal.com]

"So there must be lots of friends you neglect."
Yes - or who neglect me - or who simply don't post alot. All three. Some post only rarely but I don't want to lose them, so I check them once in a great while. But that's their choice/style, not mine. My vision of what I want from LJ has changed since I began it - I now want a close group of friends who I really know or GET to know well, who I click with - and yes, commenting back and posting faithfully is a big part of that. I know the folks who really want to do this with me by now - and those are the journals I never neglect. Someday - I will cut off the journals that there is little or no interaction with, as you have. *nods*

"I'm willing to add you, but if i find out we don't match in our Lj-habbit, i'm afraid i will delete you again."
That's more than fair and logical. You don't know me or anything about me, really. How can you possibly know if I will fit in with your journal life unless we get to know each other? I do not believe in drama or hurt feelings if someone deletes me. Either it works, or it doesn't.
I had/have a feeling it could work with us - just an instinct. Feel free to add back if you wish - but understand that I know that if we do not blend well, you'll be deleting. And that's more than ok by me. :-)

[chaquir.livejournal.com]

hehe that sounds all fair to me.
Sorry we have to get this rough start.

I'm adding you back right now. If you want a quick update about who i am, just go to my info-page and click on the bronzed pic of me. You'll find yourself in a warpzone to an entry with some info about me.
Just so you know who you're dealing with.
btw, welcome to my life. I hope it's not too boring for you. At the moment i don't have much going on.